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She says the kids are confused why they can’t see daddy
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Daddy responds (with the wannabe professionals included). Well, as far as communication goes, based on unrealistic projections, accusations and allegations, I’m not allowed to contact anyone directly – at least up to the point when everyone here has to realize what grave mistakes they’re making now. They’ve also mentioned that this has already been communicated with you.…
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When the light starts to crack through
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“This is fine” meme was always so funny and fascinating to me. It really feels exactly what it means to heal from past trauma, and pain. The world itself is on fire, but you’re finally really just fine with yourself, your cup of coffee. Calmly observing the situation, knowing that ultimately you only have…
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Cut the BS – it’s #accountability
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The number one problem in all relationships, personal or professional, is the lack of accountability. The one we hold for ourselves as well as for others. The social media and networks are oversaturated with content, and people who are polarising. Feminine power coaches, Masculine Lion Kings coaches, relationship gurus, etc. The overall pattern is…
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Was it really worth it?
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When I became a dad for the first time, it changed me. The moment I looked in his newborn eyes, life immediately had a new meaning, a purpose. I was 26 years old at that time. Uncertain, yes. Scared, no. I was happy, I knew I will do anything for this kid. Those days…
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Embracing the suck and the void in my heart
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The “fun” part of healing from trauma is finding out what is not healing well yet, and in my case it is what made me weak in the first place – not love, not a woman, but children. When we still had couples therapies together, and my own therapist was on vacation for a…
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Complex trauma and men’s mental health
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First of all, I’d like to just say that not all childhood or adult trauma (simple trauma or even PTSD) is the same as C-PTSD or Complex Trauma. It simply means that we can’t compare. It’s not a competition in terms of who suffered more, or less. It’s just that people who have suffered…
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(re)Launch
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About 2 months ago my old website, and quite a lot of content with it got wiped due to the fact that the tiny company where it was hosted went bankrupt, and I never received the memo. I also had the most recent backups in their hands. Oh well, when it comes to my…